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We believe reunions have the power to nourish and strengthen families of all races and ethnicities. Reunions can encourage healthy extended family relationships, provide a sense of belonging, restore family pride, nurture and respect all generations, and impart wisdom, knowledge and a shared purpose. Our goal is to strengthen, inspire and support family reunion planning; share useful information and resources; and advocate for the teaching of family and reunion history, values and experiences.
- Dr. Ione Vargus
September is a time for change and transition. In September we plan our last Summer barbecue, get children settled into a back-to-school routine, ready ourselves for fall and end of year holidays and celebrations—all while conducting some serious planning for our next family reunion. The thing about family reunions is that they too change and transition. Life changes us and our family members. Every year our families are getting older, wiser and hopefully more involved. New members are born, others pass on. The family dynamic, interactions, roles and relationships shift. And that changes the way we plan, the activities and events we pursue, and how we communicate.
In order for reunions to stay fresh, succeed and grow, we have to be willing to adapt, modify and recalibrate. That doesn’t mean our well established, deeply rooted traditions go away because traditions are needed to keep the past, present and future connected. What it does mean is that we have to get our younger generations on board, and work through the generational issues and stumbling blocks that slow down our planning, progression and togetherness.
September's PRACTICAL FAMILY REUNION PLANNING provides helpful tips for this month's Intergeneration Month and Ancestor Appreciation Day, to keep the family working together—no matter the age or generation. September is also host to Hispanic Heritage Month, Wife Appreciation Day, Grandparent’s Day, Stepfamily Day, Baby Safety Month, Kids Take Over The Kitchen Day and Childrens’ Good Manners Month. There’s also Labor Day, National Day of Service and Remembrance, National Preparedness Month, Air Force Birthday, National Courtesy Month, Respect Day, Good Neighbor Day, National Love People Day, Women's Health and Fitness Day, Family Health and Fitness Day, Self-Improvement Month, Healthy Aging Month, and so much more. Check out this month’s FAMILY TIME with over 70 observances you and your family can enjoy.
This month’s REUNION TIP OF THE MONTH identifies a way to merge your reunion with your school students for National School Success Month, and WORTH REPEATING shares quotes on being prepared, and seasonal change and transition.
While there are a number of fun things to observe this month, there are also some serious things happening as well, including National Preparedness Month and Suicide Prevention Month. Check the links below for information and help if needed.
Have a blessed September. Be well. Keep planning. Check-in on family members—old and young. And don’t forget to have some fun.
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POSTED NOW:
- Reunion Tip of the Month
- Family Time
- Practical Family Reunion Planning
- Worth Repeating Quotes: Learning and Preparedness
- Worth Repeating Quotes: Fall
LATER THIS MONTH:
- Sticky Reunion Situation
National Preparedness
2025 Theme: “Preparedness Starts at Home”
CLICK HERE for info and resources.
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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
Dial 988 - Available 24/7
988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code
that will route callers to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline.
As family children head back to school, think of ways to encourage them to do and be their best—including incentives that can be enjoyed during the next reunion.
Consider implementing rewards like elevated school supplies, gift cards, student spotlights on your website or in your family newsletter, an end of year promotion party at your next reunion. Help promote a positive attitude towards learning by praising students efforts in addition to their grades. Creating a strong support system for academic success can encourage students and hopefully piques their interest in your family reunion planning.
September is when we try to stretch-out the last days of summer, focus on back-to-school learning, begin thinking about (or continue planning) our next reunion, and searching for more ways to have fun with the family. This September we’ve listed 70 observances, events and holidays that you can turn into great family time including Wife Appreciation Day, Grandparent’s Day, Stepfamily Day, Baby Safety Month, Kids Take Over The Kitchen Day, Childrens’ Good Manners Month, Intergeneration Month, Ancestor Appreciation Day, National Love People Day, and Suicide Prevention Month.
Want to turn FAMILY TIME observances into great time with the family? On days that celebrate foods, incorporate them into your meals and show the kids how it’s made. On dates with activities, incorporate them into your daily routine. On all other days have a discussion, do some research, discover something new about the day. Make a game of it, get the whole family involved, and most of all, have some fun.
September is Intergeneration Month, time to recognize and celebrate connections that span different generations. Use the month to intentionally focus on connecting family generations to better communicate age-related gratitude and needs, build relationships that close the generation gap, and cultivate intentional interaction with each other. Take some time this month to bring your family together to inspire ideas and activities that can make your reunion more intergenerational and insightful.
Ancestor Appreciation Day is observed on September 27th, giving us a chance to appreciate our ancestors, reflect on family lineage, and learn about ancestors we may have never known or heard about. Take some time this month to interview family elders and conduct research to discover more about our families. Then be sure to share what you've uncovered with family members before, during and after the next reunion.
“Don't be afraid to ask questions. Don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it. I do that every day. Asking for help isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength. It shows you have the courage to admit when you don't know something, and to learn something new.” – Former President Barack Obama
“If you are not willing to learn, no one can help you. If you are determined to learn, no one can stop you.” – Zig Ziglar
“Education is for improving the lives of others and for leaving your community and world better than you found it.”
– Marian Wright Edelman
"No time is ever wasted if you have a book along as a companion." – Marian Wright Edelman
“Let us resolve to be ready for any crisis and work to inspire a new generation of Americans, vested with the knowledge and experience to protect themselves, their families, and their communities in the face of any challenge.”
- Former President Barack Obama
“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.”
- Benjamin Franklin
“And all at once, summer collapsed into fall” – Oscar Wilde
“Autumn shows us how beautiful it is to let things go.” – Unknown
“Every leaf speaks bliss to me, fluttering from the autumn tree”
– Emily Bronte
“Autumn is more the season of the soul than of nature”
– Friedrich Nietzsche
“Autumn is the season to find contentment at home by paying attention to what we already have.” – Unknown
“Autumn carries more gold in its pocket than all the other seasons.” – Jim Bishop
Planning a family reunion? Click below for tips on:
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ALSO check out our FAMILY FEATURES, interviews of families discussing their journey towards a successful reunion. Click the links below to meet the families and read their stories.
- https://nationalfamilyreunioninstitute.net/meet-the-hancock-family
- https://nationalfamilyreunioninstitute.net/meet-the-mitchell-family
- https://nationalfamilyreunioninstitute.net/meet-the-edwards-family
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SUCCESS IS RELATIVE
The Edwards family’s last reunion was relatively successful, but they’d like to see even more relatives show up this year. And they’ve got some unique and creative ideas that should help accomplish that goal.
The Situation: HOW ARE FAMILY REUNIONS MORE THAN A PICNIC?
Our planning committee likes the suggestions and tips we get from NFRI, however we're debating what exactly does "family reunions, more than a picnic" mean and how do we incorporate it into our reunion? It sounds simple but our committee is at odds about it.
As this year’s reunions draw to a close it’s time to evaluate what worked and what needs improvement.
The Situation: OUR REUNION FAILED
Help! We just had our first reunion in years, and it didn't turn out as planned. Many people didn't show up including a couple of the planners. Information for the reunion went out five months prior identifying the location (which was close to several amusement/entertainment spots); name and price for a place to sleep; plus, the cost of two family main events (for Friday and Saturday that family members were cooking for).
Two months before the reunion folks were complaining about the sleeping arrangements, saying the cost was too expensive. They couldn't understand why the planners didn't work out discounted tickets for the amusements, and they felt the cost for the main events was too expensive. They were told there were several hotels and motels in the area that they could look into, and that the food costs were non-negotiable.
In hindsight I'm not surprised people didn't show up, but what do we do now? I'm not ready to give up on reinstating our family reunions. Yes, the planners could have done a better job and should have looked at the overall cost, realized it was too expensive, and made some negotiations. And yes the communications were lacking on both sides of the planning. Do you think we can fix things for a possible reunion in the next year or two?
LIVE VILTuesday September 2, 2025 8pm ET
Signature & Game Night
James M. Beidler and Michael John Neill will demonstrate four keys for learing about one family branch. Using Conrad Beidler as an example, they will show you how you could be Running Down the Boundaries of your ancestor's life to learn more. Plus, they will answer, can a signature change?
Then the reigning champions, Dr Debbie Abbott and J. Mark Lowe, FUGA, return for Game Night: Genealogy Feud. This will be a fun way to learn about the joys and perils of family history research. Other competitors include Drew Smith, LaJoy Mosby, and Patricia Stamm, CG.
CLICK HERE to watch on YouTube
CLICK HERE to watch on Facebook
GENEALOGY QUICK START—a 60-minute TV program that provides the steps needed to begin (or continue) researching your family ancestry. It's the best place to go when you need help understanding and/or researching genealogy.
Website : genealogyquickstart.com
Facebook : facebook.com/GenealogyQuickStartTV
YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/@GenealogyQuickStart/streams
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