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NFRI Motto

"family reunions are more than just a picnic"

We believe reunions have the power to nourish and strengthen families of all races and ethnicities. Reunions can encourage healthy extended family relationships, provide a sense of belonging, restore family pride, nurture and respect all generations, and impart wisdom, knowledge and a shared purpose. Our goal is to strengthen, inspire and support family reunion planning; share useful information and resources; and advocate for the teaching of family and reunion history, values and experiences.   - Dr. Ione Vargus


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NOVEMBER 2026

ovember symbolizes transition, gratitude, remembrance of loved ones, and preparation for the year's end. November represents prosperity, strength, community, joy and longevity. November is full of thrills and chills, and greets us with an extra hour of sleep, chillier temps and picturesque autumn foliage. November means warm and fragrant smells from the kitchen, oven-baked comfort foods and savory desserts. November is when we take time to evaluate where we are with our family reunions, consider what we’ve accomplished so far (or not), and begin populating our to-do lists with actions needed to bring about success. And while the official reunion may be months away, November is here to usher in plenty of opportunity for unofficial “reunion” time with family and friends including Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's Eve and a plethora of holiday dinners, parties, gift exchanges and festive celebrations. 


November also means it's time to get out and vote. Voting is a privilege, duty and responsibility. It's important. So no excuses. Let's just do it. 


Speaking of just doing it, this month's FAMILY TIME is a mix of November things to do, holidays, observances and celebrations including Veteran’s Day, Thanksgiving Day, Military Family Appreciation Month, the Marine Corp Birthday, National Adoption Month, National Gratitude Month, National Inspirational Role Models Month, World Kindness Day, World Hello Day, American Made Matters Day, the Great American Smokeout Day, Chicken Soup for the Soul Day, National Nachos Day, National French Toast Day and National Stuffing Day. This month’s REUNION TIP OF THE MONTH is a list of takeaways from last year’s Virtual Family Reunion Planning Workshop. And WORTH REPEATING is all about gratitude and giving thanks. 


This Thanksgiving Day as we sit around our dinner tables being grateful for those around us, let’s consider spreading more love, joy, encouragement and support. Let’s try to live each day being more helpful, hopeful, peaceful and positive. Let’s treat others as we’d like to be treated. Let's be well, eat well, and do well. And let's continue to grow stronger families—and reunions—together.


Have a great November. Stay safe and keep planning. 

 

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DOUG'S FIX ON A STICKY REUNION SITUATION

PAST DUE...PLEASE REMIT PAYMENT

Our reunion chapter has experienced difficulty collecting chapter dues last year. We recognize families have been impacted financially with layoffs, reduced work hours, etc. We’re hosting the 2022 reunion and the dues provide the seed money needed for the reunion. Should we ask those that have missed dues

payments to catch them up?


CLICK HERE FOR THE FIX

REUNION TIP OF THE MONTH...

During last year’s October Workshop/35th Anniversary Gathering, we identified 35 things we've learned about family reunion planning. Following are the Top 10 Take-Aways from that list: 

  1. Don't plan alone.
  2. Plan early.
  3. Make sure every family branch is      included on the planning committee.
  4. Have a plan for transitioning      leadership to the next generation.
  5. Gather contact info for all family members; build      and continually update a database.
  6. Budget carefully.
  7. Plan activities that get all family members      interacting.
  8. Use the reunion to recognize and reinforce      tradition, encourage participation and instill pride.
  9. Be an investigator when researching your past family history.


Note:  Make sure to date all documents, materials and pictures with the month, day and year 


FAMILY TIME...

November is full of lots to do, celebrate, eat, enjoy and make good family time out of. Family Days to celebrate this month include: Native American Heritage Month, Thanksgiving, Family Stories Month, National Family Caregivers Appreciation Month, National Family Literacy Month, National Family Week, National Housewives Day, National Men Make Dinner Day, National Parents as Teachers Day, Inspirational Role Models Month, Gratitude Month, Kindness Day, Veteran’s Day and so much more including your family members birthdays, anniversaries, special celebrations and occasions. Check out the full list of November observances by clicking below


click here for November observances

WORTH REPEATING...

“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow.” - Melody Beattie


"Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it." - William Arthur Ward.


“The more you practice the art of thankfulness, the more you have to be thankful for.” - Norman Vincent Peale.


“We must find time to stop and thank the people who make a difference in our lives.” - John F. Kennedy


“If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.” – Meister Eckhart


“A thankful heart is not only the greatest virtue, but the parent of all the other virtues.” - Cicero


“Make it a habit to tell people, ‘thank you.’ To express your appreciation sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return.” 

- Ralph Marston


Dr. Vargus once said...



  

“Black families participate in reunions in what I believe are numbers and percentages and with a consistency to which no other group can make claim. For a long while it had the characteristic of a movement, as each year, more and more families held their first reunion.”


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FAMILY REUNION PLANNING TIPS

Planning a family reunion?  Click below for tips on:

  • PLANNING A FAMILY REUNION on GENEALOGY QUICK START TV (video)
  • ASSEMBLING A PLANNING TEAM (worksheet)
  • WHO, WHAT, WHERE, WHEN, HOW
  • GET ORGANIZED
  • COUNTDOWN / TIMELINE
  • REUNION ACTIVITIES
  • SUZANNE & DOUG'S FIX FOR 1ST TIME PLANNERS
  •  SWEET TIPS FOR FAMILY REUNION PLANNERS


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ALSO check out our FAMILY FEATURES, interviews of families discussing their journey towards a successful reunion. Click the links below to meet the families and read their stories.


- https://nationalfamilyreunioninstitute.net/meet-the-hancock-family

- https://nationalfamilyreunioninstitute.net/meet-the-mitchell-family

- https://nationalfamilyreunioninstitute.net/meet-the-edwards-family


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- Check the SRS Archives (CLICK HERE)  -OR- 

- Contact us  (CLICK HERE).



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