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Dr. Ione VargUS, FOUNDER

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NFRI Motto

"family reunions are more than just a picnic"

We believe reunions have the power to nourish and strengthen families of all races and ethnicities. Reunions can encourage healthy extended family relationships, provide a sense of belonging, restore family pride, nurture and respect all generations, and impart wisdom, knowledge and a shared purpose. Our goal is to strengthen, inspire and support family reunion planning; share useful information and resources; and advocate for the teaching of family and reunion history, values and experiences.   - Dr. Ione Vargus


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SEPTEMBER 2026

September can be thought of as a time for change and transition, similar to the new year. In September we plan our last Summer barbecue, get children settled into a back-to-school routine, ready ourselves for fall and end of year holidays and celebrations—all while conducting some serious planning for our next family reunion. The thing about family reunions is that they too change and transition. Life changes us and our family members. Every year our families are getting older, wiser and hopefully more involved. New members are born, others pass on. The family dynamic, interactions, roles and relationships shift. And that changes the way we plan, the activities and events we pursue, and how we communicate.


In order for reunions to stay fresh, succeed and grow, we have to be willing to adapt, modify and recalibrate. That doesn’t mean our well established, deeply rooted traditions go away, because traditions are needed to keep the past, present and future connected. What it does mean is that we have to get our younger generations on board, and work through the generational issues and stumbling blocks that slow down our planning, progression and togetherness.

 

September's Practical Family Reunion Planning provides helpful tips for this month's Intergeneration Month and Ancestor Appreciation Day, to keep the family working together—no matter the age or generation. September is also host to Hispanic Heritage Month, Wife Appreciation Day, Grandparent’s Day, Stepfamily Day, Baby Safety Month, Kids Take Over The Kitchen Day and Childrens’ Good Manners Month. There’s also Labor Day, National Day of Service and Remembrance, National Preparedness Month, Air Force Birthday, National Courtesy Month, Respect Day, Good Neighbor Day, National Love People Day, Women's Health and Fitness Day, Family Health and Fitness Day, Self-Improvement Month, Healthy Aging Month, and so much more. Check out this month’s FAMILY TIME with over 70 observances you and your family can enjoy.


This month’s REUNION TIP OF THE MONTH identifies a way to merge your reunion with your school students for National School Success Month, and WORTH REPEATING shares quotes on being prepared and seasonal change and transition.


While there are a number of fun things to observe this month, there are also some serious things happening as well, including National Preparedness Month andSuicide Prevention Month. Check the links below for information and help if needed.


Have a blessed September. Be well. Keep planning. Check-in on family members—old and young. And don’t forget to have some fun.

 

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NEW NOW:

- Reunion Tip of the Month

- Practical Family Reunion Planning

- Family Time

- Worth Repeating Quotes: Fall

- Worth Repeating Quotes: Learning and Being Prepared

- Dr. Vargus Once Said

- Doug’s Fix on a Sticky Reunion Situation (repeat)

- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline info

- National Preparedness Month info


If you know someone who needs help..

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

Dial  988 - Available 24/7

988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code

that will route callers to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline.

CLICK HERE for more info


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National Preparedness Month

2026 Theme: “Americans Stand Ready”

CLICK HERE for more info on how to make a plan,

get involved, get ready and resources.

genealogy quick start:::Live streaming every other Tuesday:::Click for info

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DOUG HARRIS, NFRI Advisory Board Member Tribute Page - CLiCK HERE

DOUG HARRIS, NFRI Advisory Board Member Tribute Page - CLiCK HERE

DOUG HARRIS, NFRI Advisory Board Member Tribute Page - CLiCK HERE

DOUG HARRIS, NFRI Advisory Board Member Tribute Page - CLiCK HERE

DOUG HARRIS, NFRI Advisory Board Member Tribute Page - CLiCK HERE

DOUG HARRIS, NFRI Advisory Board Member Tribute Page - CLiCK HERE

NATIONAL FAMILY REUNION INSTITUTE

Virtual Family Reunion Planners Workshop


WORTH REPEATING: DOUG's FIX ON A STICKY REUNION SITUATION...

WORTH REPEATING: DOUG's FIX ON A STICKY REUNION SITUATION...

WORTH REPEATING: DOUG's FIX ON A STICKY REUNION SITUATION...

THE SITUATION :  M.I.A. Family Members


Over the past three years several family matriarchs and patriarchs have passed, and we've noticed that many of their descendants have distanced themselves from the family. Is this something that happens to all families? How do we re-engage these family members, or should we leave them alone and hope they come back on their own?


CLICK HERE FOR DOUG's FIX

REUNION TIP OF THE MONTH...

WORTH REPEATING: DOUG's FIX ON A STICKY REUNION SITUATION...

WORTH REPEATING: DOUG's FIX ON A STICKY REUNION SITUATION...

As family children head back to school, think of ways to encourage them to do and be their best—including incentives that can be enjoyed during the next reunion. Consider implementing rewards like elevated school supplies, gift cards, student spotlights on your website or in your family newsletter, an end of year promotion party at your next reunion. Help promote a positive attitude towards learning by praising students efforts in addition to their grades. Creating a strong support system for academic success can encourage students and hopefully piques their interest in your family reunion planning.


PRACTICAL FAMILY REUNION PLANNING...

PRACTICAL FAMILY REUNION PLANNING...

PRACTICAL FAMILY REUNION PLANNING...

September is Intergeneration Month,  time to recognize and celebrate connections that span different generations. Use the month to intentionally focus on connecting family generations to better communicate age-related gratitude and needs, build relationships that close the generation gap, and cultivate intentional interaction with each other. Take some time this month to bring your family together to inspire ideas and activities that can make your reunion more intergenerational and insightful. 

FAMILY TIME...

PRACTICAL FAMILY REUNION PLANNING...

PRACTICAL FAMILY REUNION PLANNING...

September is when we try to stretch-out the last days of summer, focus on back-to-school learning, think about (or continue) planning our next reunion, and searching for more ways to have fun with the family. This September we’ve listed over 70 observances, events and holidays that you can turn into great family time including Ancestor Appreciation Day, Daughter Day, Grandparent’s Day, Kids Take Over The Kitchen Day, Love People Day, Good Neighbor Day, Son Day, Stepfamily Day, Wife Appreciation Day, Baby Safety Month, Healthy Aging Month, Hispanic Heritage Month, Intergeneration Month, Self-Improvement Month and Suicide Prevention Month.

click here for September observances

WORTH REPEATING...

WORTH REPEATING...

WORTH REPEATING...

FALL  

“And all at once, summer collapsed into fall” 

– Oscar Wilde


“Autumn shows us how beautiful it is to let things go.” – Unknown


“Every leaf speaks bliss to me, fluttering from the autumn tree”– Emily Bronte


“Autumn is more the season of the soul than of nature” – Friedrich Nietzsche


“Autumn is the season to find contentment at home by paying attention to what we already have.” 

– Unknown


“Autumn carries more gold in its pocket than all the other seasons.” – Jim Bishop

WORTH REPEATING...

WORTH REPEATING...

WORTH REPEATING...

 Learning and Being Prepared   

"Don't be afraid to ask questions. Don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it. I do that every day. Asking for help isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength. It shows you have the courage to admit when you don't know something, and to learn something new.” – Former President Barack Obama


“If you are not willing to learn, no one can help you. If you are determined to learn, no one can stop you.” 

– Zig Ziglar


“Education is for improving the lives of others and for leaving your community and world better than you found it.” – Marian Wright Edelman


“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.”
- Benjamin Franklin 



Dr. Vargus once said...



"Family reunions have importance not just to our everyday lives, not just to the tourism industry, but to the world as a whole. Our families have value that too often goes overlooked and unrecognized. However, our strength in numbers and our financial net worth speaks loud and clear, and we cannot be denied. Reunions offer our families opportunity to not only gather together, but to see, eat, shop, play and do to the fullest from one reunion year to the next. And that’s the privilege of families recognizing their strengths, and planning and executing great reunions with meaning and purpose."


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FAMILY REUNION PLANNING TIPS

Planning a family reunion?  Click below for tips on:

  • PLANNING A FAMILY REUNION on GENEALOGY QUICK START TV (video)
  • ASSEMBLING A PLANNING TEAM (worksheet)
  • WHO, WHAT, WHERE, WHEN, HOW
  • GET ORGANIZED
  • COUNTDOWN / TIMELINE
  • REUNION ACTIVITIES
  • SUZANNE & DOUG'S FIX FOR 1ST TIME PLANNERS
  •  SWEET TIPS FOR FAMILY REUNION PLANNERS


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ALSO check out our FAMILY FEATURES, interviews of families discussing their journey towards a successful reunion. Click the links below to meet the families and read their stories.


- https://nationalfamilyreunioninstitute.net/meet-the-hancock-family

- https://nationalfamilyreunioninstitute.net/meet-the-mitchell-family

- https://nationalfamilyreunioninstitute.net/meet-the-edwards-family


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NEED HELP with a Sticky Reunion Situation? 

- Check the SRS Archives (CLICK HERE)  -OR- 

- Contact us  (CLICK HERE).



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