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We believe reunions have the power to nourish and strengthen families of all races and ethnicities. Reunions can encourage healthy extended family relationships, provide a sense of belonging, restore family pride, nurture and respect all generations, and impart wisdom, knowledge and a shared purpose. Our goal is to strengthen, inspire and support family reunion planning; share useful information and resources; and advocate for the teaching of family and reunion history, values and experiences. - Dr. Ione Vargus

It’s October. Time to transition to cooler weather. Fall back into autumnal colors and fashions. Adapt to shorter and less sun-filled days. And, get ready to enjoy end of the year family time (aka unofficial family reunions).
October is host to Positive Attitude Month, Photographer Appreciation Month, Cookie Month, Chili Month, Roller Skating Month, Pizza Month, Massage Therapy Week, Southern Food Heritage Day, National Gumbo Day and so much more. Check out the 80+ special observances hand-picked for FAMILY TIMEcelebrations this month, along with the Reunion Tip of the Month (a nod to Family History Month with tips on digging deeper into your family’s genealogy), and WORTH REPEATING (with quotes all about the family).
October is also time to celebrate the National Family Reunion Institute and our final workshop! Who would have thought that Dr. Vargus' idea from over three-plus decades ago would sustain the test of time and continue to help families stretch their imaginations from having just an annual family picnic, to sharing an experience that helps families grow and be better together—using reunions as the tool. With each workshop, it has been our pleasure to meet with you, hear from both novice and experienced planners, and foster deep connections that will last forever.
We are incredibly grateful for the trust, support, and connections we have shared with all of you over the past 36 years.. The true impact of NFRI and its workshops didn't stay confined to a single room or Zoom screen. It lives on through the people who trusted Dr. Vargus' vision of 'not just a picnic,' and who shared, supported, and strengthened one another. This workshop is far from an ending. It’s an opportunity for each of us to move the legacy forward, and we hope you’ll join us on Saturday, October 24th from 12 noon – 2:30pm EDT. Workshop presentations include:
· AI & Genealogy
· Reunion Activities and Plays
· Out of the Box Fundraisers
· Budget Saving Tips
CLICK HERE to get full details and to register. The workshop is FREE. We look forward to seeing you.
We hope you have a great October. Take time to enjoy the radiant fall foliage. Stay safe. Be well. And keep planning.
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- Dr. Vargus Once Said...
- Doug's Fix on a Sticky Reunion Situation
- Reunion Tip of the Month
- Family Time
- Worth Repeating Quotes

Our reunion chapter has experienced difficulty collecting chapter dues last year. We recognize families have been impacted financially with layoffs, reduced work hours, etc. We’re hosting the 2022 reunion and the dues provide the seed money needed for the reunion. Should we ask those that have missed dues
payments to catch them up?


Family History Month is observed this month providing a perfect opportunity to reflect on and appreciate our family lineage and learn more about family members we may have never known, heard about, rarely see and/or interact with. I recently took a close look at the 1950 Census. It was interesting reviewing the Census questions and seeing the responses made by my kinfolk and their neighbors. There were the usual questions regarding age and marital status. And then there were the queries related to work: What was this person doing most of last week; Did this person do any work at all last week; Was this person looking for work; Even though he didn’t work last week, does he have a job or business; How many hours did he work last week; and What kind of work was he doing?
Looking at my mother’s info I discovered that she was working as a typist for a real estate establishment, her sister was a trimmer for a knitting mill, and her sister’s husband was a cab driver. All three were working 40 hours a week. When I read that my aunt was born in New York I realized I have some more digging to do because I thought my mom and her siblings were all born in Philadelphia, PA.
The Census is only one vehicle to use to research and gain knowledge about your family members. Genealogy Quick Start (GQS) is another place to go to get research information, hints and tips. With GQS you can find new techniques to break through brick walls, and discover the fun and creativity involved in uncovering your past.
Take some time this month to dig deeper into your family’s genealogy. And don’t forget to share what you learn with family members at the next reunion (or before). After all, some news is just too good to hold on to.

Looking for something to do with the family this month? October boasts Family History Month, Positive Attitude Month, and Photographer Appreciation Month, along with Evaluate Your Life Day, Smart is Cool Day, Do Something Nice Day, You Matter to Me Day, Make a Difference Day, Get Smart About Credit Day, Kids Music Day, Train Your Brain Day, Halloween, Breast Cancer Awareness Month, Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and so much more.
Family Days to celebrate this month include: Filipino American Heritage Month, Hispanic Heritage Month (began 9/15 ends 10/15), Italian-American Heritage Month, Polish-American Heritage Month, German-American Day, Mother-in Law Day, Child Health Day, Take Your Parents to Lunch Day, and Eat Better, Eat Together Month. And don’t forget your family members birthdays, anniversaries, and other familial special occasions.
CLICK HERE for our list of fun days to turn into great family time this month.

“There are so many stories that are buried on family trees.”
– Henry Louis Gates, Jr.
“To forget one’s ancestors is to be a brook without a source, a tree without a root “ - Chinese Proverb
“The thing that interests me most about family history is the gap between the things we think we know about our families and the realities." - Jeremy Hardy
"In all of us there is a hunger, marrow deep, to know our heritage - to know who we are and where we came from. Without this enriching knowledge, there is a hollow yearning." - Alex Haley, Roots
"We are links between the ages, containing past and present expectations, sacred memories and future promise." - Edward Sellner
“Don’t let the busy world of today keep you from showing how much you love and appreciate your family.” - Josiah
“My goal is to get everybody in America to do their family tree.”
- Henry Louis Gates, Jr.
“Black families participate in reunions in what I believe are numbers and percentages and with a consistency to which no other group can make claim. For a long while it had the characteristic of a movement, as each year, more and more families held their first reunion.”

Planning a family reunion? Click below for tips on:
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ALSO check out our FAMILY FEATURES, interviews of families discussing their journey towards a successful reunion. Click the links below to meet the families and read their stories.
- https://nationalfamilyreunioninstitute.net/meet-the-hancock-family
- https://nationalfamilyreunioninstitute.net/meet-the-mitchell-family
- https://nationalfamilyreunioninstitute.net/meet-the-edwards-family
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